The Difference Between "Smart" and "Gifted" (And Why It Matters)

A bright student...
• Follows directions; copies and memorizes well
• Prefers logical, step-by-step explanations
• Is mature for his/her age
• Performs at the top of the group
• Does very well in a traditional classroom environment
• Usually fits in well with peers
• Tends to be satisfied with his/her performance

A gifted learner...
• Is independent and self-directed; creates new ideas and techniques
• Understands things intuitively; often makes mental “leaps”
• Is asynchronous; can be highly sensitive and intense
• Is beyond the group

• May struggle in a traditional classroom environment

• May have trouble fitting in with peers
• Can be highly self-critical

The main difference between bright and gifted children is that gifted children are more. More intuitive, more sensitive, more intense, more out-of-sync. In this case, "more" does not always mean "better." Gifted learners often struggle to find acceptance within their schools, their communities, and sometimes even their own families. As a result, they can feel isolated and misunderstood. 

So, to those of you who wish your child was in the gifted program...maybe think twice before you say that. The truth is that gifted kids are more than "just bright." Gifted learners have different educational, social, and emotional needs than their peers. I firmly believe that all kids can be bright and successful in their own way, especially if they're raised well. However, not all children are gifted. Giftedness is a special need, and it isn't 100% good or 100% bad. It's just a different way of being.